somewhat similar circumstances here so my heart goes out to u. be strong, GAL. love the saying: "expect the worst, hope for the best." i believe Coach is the one who places that on his posts. it is the TRUTH.
w/ texting, there are actually software programs that will enable u to view SMS/texts, but it depends on your phone. i just found out about it 2 days ago while googling about keystroke software, eblaster or aobo.
this is for things like iphones, androids, blackberries, etc. apparently you buy the software from the above site, it's downloaded onto your computer, you load it onto the phone of interest, it literally goes into hiding with only u knowing how to pull it up and it transmits texts verbatim to an acct maintained at the above site where u can log into and check them. the catch is u pay monthly fee (either for 3, 6, 12 months i think?).
we live in a crazy, crazy time. whatever stuff we might have like keystroke counters, etc can u imagine what is really out there if u have the time and money and even gov't on ur side. would be nervous about this sort of thing.
