I told her this morning that I have responsibilities and obligations and that she also has them. I said she could choose to ignore them but that I was not going to and I would be staying in the house, and she could choose to join me (I didn’t word it quite that well but she got the point).
Guess she thought she would ignore them.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!