I think your X was totally upset b/c she couldn't have the fantasy day she planned with OM and her kids. Reality is painful for her. I've said it before, and I'll say it again. I don't think you should talk to her on the phone esp. when she's acting crazy like that. And usually either you or she will have the boys there. Tell her to email you and hang up if she yells or act nasty. Of course, you can give me the same advice--but I do try to stick to email when possible. Most of the times when X calls me now it's when he's mad about something and wants to vent at me. Don't need to put up with that anymore; well no one should anyway.
I'm glad at least you got to spend the day with your boys. I do have to think that if you suggested your X give up Mother's day with her boys; that would have gone over real well.
