New to this Community seeking advice

[MichelleLT]

It could mean a lot of things. It could mean that it's too much work to worry about right now, or too expensive. It could mean she's not sure.

She could be mentally/emotionally gone and thus just think it's a piece of paper and not be worrying about it. Or she could be harboring secret hopes of reconciliation.

There really is no way to tell.

The only thing we know for sure is that she is not motivated enough to worry about it right now. So she's not somewhere in the middle.

Beyond that, who knows.

Keep working on trying different tactics to build more friendship with her. Just keep careful watch for any withdrawing behavior on her part so you know when you've crossed some boundary she's set.