to answer you Coach. no. almost like she is resurrecting these figures from her past. the guy in late 08-early 09 was college flame. they were together for 3 years more or less. he had wife/2 boys, decided that was it. jig was up. we live in same state.
this guy? found on FB. i HATE FB more than anyone can imagine. m sure not alone. they used to comment on each other's stuff, but from what i can see no more.
as for sosadny, how do i start to practice tough love? she IS living in crazy land. 5 kids? reading new book called the unexpected legacy of divorce. wow. talk about what i want to avoid at all costs. where do i start w/ the boundaries?
agree transparency is the order of the day. am so tempted to get something like eblaster. have noticed no secret texts to her phone since last week when noticed 6-7 in one day, the same day she was coming back home w/ kids. the FB thing bothers me soooo much. something HAS to be going on.
am trying to play cool cat. no biggie. had a good w/e all things considered. ML Sat morn actually. was very good. towards end she engaged me in passionate kisses (has not been kissing much if at all) and could swear she teared up like she actually felt something for me/betw us there bc was kissing her elbow where she has 2 small birthmarks which she KNOWS i cherish bc it is unique to her. Fday? great. like one happy family.
this is ALL terribly confusing. am doting, caring, working at my parent n anger, her friends have actually counselled her on staying in CT rather than impetuously going to FL! OMG. this is craziness. do people actually look back with hindsight being 20/20 and say "was i f-ing crazy there?" would be curious to know if a WAS actually has realization dawn on them later on?
u did say sosadny that sometimes people finally realize the consequences of their actions. really?
