Originally Posted By: optimust
I've got myself into a super-snooping mode, which I think is hurting my ability to detatch.


I am going to tell you that snooping interferes with your detachment.

However you don't need me to tell you this because already have your own way of knowing.

How does it make you feel when you're snooping?

How does it feel when you find something that upsets you?

How long do you want to continue to feel this way?

That is when you understand detachment.

There is no other way through this.

You MUST detach or you will be stuck.


My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am