Need a Plan for My Marriage

[LSG]

IDU,

I am doing much better, and I see some of STBXW coming back, but I am done with her. I will not have a good R with the STBXW ever. I will be cordial for the kids, and that will be about it.

I am still looking for a job, and I have to get an attorney too, but I have some ideas and new possibilities for the that.

It is going good. I just wish I had some more energy these days.

[idontunderstand]

It is going good. I just wish I had some more energy these days.

Man, I know what you mean. I fantasize about taking a week off and going fishing or camping or whatever and not seeing or hearing from W for a while and just relaxing.

[Steve McQueen]

Happy Father's Day to you too LSG.
God Bless you and your family.

[LSG]

Steve,

Thank you so much.

I hope you had a nice Father's Day too. I hope all is well with your W, and you are both doing good.

I really appreciate the kind words.

[LSG]

Another first in along time with W was she left the bedroom door open while reading. I was surprised. I soon got ready for bed, and she turned out the lights and acted to be asleep.

I do not know what message this sends to me, if any.

[sandi2]

I am doing much better, and I see some of STBXW coming back, but I am done with her. I will not have a good R with the STBXW ever. I will be cordial for the kids, and that will be about it.

If you really meant that.....then the things like this below should not even phase you a minute.

Another first in along time with W was she left the bedroom door open while reading. I was surprised. I soon got ready for bed, and she turned out the lights and acted to be asleep.

I do not know what message this sends to me, if any.

A man who is confident in himself would simply smile or shugg his shoulders and go to bed. Do yourself a favor and refuse to wonder what messages she may or may not be giving.

[LSG]

It did not phase me. I guess I just find changes in her behavior interesting lately since being on this forum. I try to understand what is happening around me more.

I will truly just not even think about it. Just was curious what others thought about it.

Sandie2-Thanks for the response.

[sandi2]

No biggie. I've seen some nearly lose their minds trying to figure out what WAW was thinking, etc. As long as that doesn't rule you, then that's good.

[DaddyLongShanks]

Another first in along time with W was she left the bedroom door open while reading. I was surprised. I soon got ready for bed, and she turned out the lights and acted to be asleep.

I do not know what message this sends to me, if any.

LSG with you being in your own body, and not having pain or hurt in you and handling your business you are looking more attractive. She may well try to suck you back in. Do not impede any of her efforts, but you have to keep doing what your doing.

Many of us need to stop doing things worrying about the response were giving, its unmasculine. You are being very masculine in your actions.

Get out and have some fun for yourself. One of these days you may find yourself pleasantly awaken, or to have your own wife take you. I'd let it happen.

We all know its not the end of the story, you have to stay being a man.

[LSG]

Thanks.

You are right about it ruling you if you let every move be analyzed. It has been a hard road to where it does not matter to me. I still have little moments, but they really are not that much as each day passes.