I am doing much better, and I see some of STBXW coming back, but I am done with her. I will not have a good R with the STBXW ever. I will be cordial for the kids, and that will be about it.
If you really meant that.....then the things like this below should not even phase you a minute.
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Another first in along time with W was she left the bedroom door open while reading. I was surprised. I soon got ready for bed, and she turned out the lights and acted to be asleep.
I do not know what message this sends to me, if any.
A man who is confident in himself would simply smile or shugg his shoulders and go to bed. Do yourself a favor and refuse to wonder what messages she may or may not be giving.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
