MLC with a side of infidelity

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So I went to the links posted early on in this thread and followed the DETATCHMENT thread, and will try to incorporate as much as I can.
I've got myself into a super-snooping mode, which I think is hurting my ability to detatch. I guess I justify it now with only the fact that DD's interest is at stake when it comes to the lawyer stuff, and snooping might give me a head's up. Not a real good reason, therefore will be trying to stop all snooping by the end of this week.(unless there is advice countering this)