Why are all of our sitches so complicated? Your H is not cheating, he just wants to find himself and move to Ethiopia? Wow. Very tough!

I will be so curious to hear of his reaction when you chat up that guy on FB.

So is your H's identity wrapped up in his job- I mean can dissatisfaction with his work be what is causing him to doubt who he is and what his purpose is? If that makes any sense.

Are all of our H's dreading getting older? Feeling confined by a wife and kids? Is that why they are running away? I mean 2 are cheaters and the other 2 want to be alone. Sorry, I am rambling.

So if your H goes off to Ethiopia, I wonder if it would help him realize how blessed he is to have you and your daughter and want a family after all.

Gatsby, it is great to hear that you are enjoying your time with H and your daughter and it sounds like he is enjoying himself, too. I think you will end up together but it just might take longer than a couple of months...you know?


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004