Why does she want to see the C alone if it didn't help the other time she tried it alone? Did you suggest going together?
Even though she says OM is out of the picture, she still wants to be single, so there's more to it than she's letting on. I'm not saying it's that particular OM.....but there's something else than just not wanting to be M, IMHO.
Has she noticed any positive changes in you?
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I told her this is how her response read to me, and she told me that isn't what she was saying.
Perhaps you misread her response in your no contact, also. However, I believe in doing what works (as long as it's the right thing), so you have to go with what appears to be doing that. But if contacting her more often goes on the positive side.....you need to tell MWD b/c I think it would be the first case. I have not seen a stitch where pursuing a WAW (especially one in an A) has worked.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
