I do not care about the sex thing right now, I just want to get her back being comfortable with me again, I knew she was not that comfortable, but being described as an awful experience when we were just kissing is just like a kick to the groin.
I am scared to death, she has never spoken to a L before as far as I know. Now she is speaking to a L. Wow. Scared to death.
Going to just lay off everything for a while and go with a pleasant attitude and 180 her for a while. There is plenty of time to discuss the lack of sex. We just need to start discussing it, and discussing other issues, and not letting it get bottled up until there is an erruption or a checkout.
