Snodderly Thank you for your insight into his behaviour. Each child individually is now telling him they wish to have nothng to do with OW. This rocks his fantasy world where he would marry OW and his children be part of his new happy family.
Mila and SA. I remember when he left H told me the children would be absolutely fine as they would see he was happy. Of course none of them have been fine. They were devastated. Now they are angry with him. Three of them have been to counselling sessions. Maybe reality has peeped through about his children. I told D she is entitled to her opinion and to air her views as H behaviour impacted significantly on her.
H remains in his hole. No texts or comms again today. He really withdraws now between visits and even when he visits he is spending less and less time with me 'chatting'. His depression is also increasing. I am giving him all the space he needs at this time.
