She is right that I didn't want DD to go to a public school but that was when we could afford a private school. That's no longer the case. Maybe she can but I can't.
As for her saying it's unfair to DD...[breathe, breathe R] because holy sh!t, who is she to talk about fairness??! is it fair to rob a child of a family for your own selfish purposes? Grrr. I could say so much to her about it but will it make a difference?!! no and as I said wii's thread it's the kids that suffer from all these consequences. She's trying to make me feel guilty and to be honest it's working a bit because of course I'd rather send her to a private school than a public one but I can't and I don't want to do it for a year and have her switch in a year or so. I'd rather her at least go somewhere she won't have to switch schools again.
As for getting back at her about the support? Nah...I think karma will take care of it. It always does.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again