WW still contacting OM although she doesn't know that I've checked the cell phone records. I've opened up a separate bank account so I'm tempted to deposit the required amount and start direct depositing my paycheck into my private account and then write WW a check to cover groceries and such for our DD's.

Should I also start interviewing mediators and attorneys?

I don't know that I've given my 180 enough of a chance to work but obviously she has no regard for my boundary although I set no time limit.

I am patient but I think I need to ratchet up the pressure a bit.

Advice please.

Last edited by loweinsd51; 06/21/10 08:33 PM.
M-43
FWW-42
T 20
M 16
DD10
DD8
EA: 1/10
Informal separation: 6/11/2010
Headed for D: 7/6/2010
Piecing? 9/10/10