Thank you all so much for your support. At the moment she is not the step mom - but is behaving that way.
I am really miffed today. We have a support worker through the school that I and XH see independantly and she also supports my sons via their learning mentors in the school. I heard today that my XH asked that the OW be involved in his next session and the support worker agreed.
I cant believe that this is allowed. She has no right to receive support from our services, ironically for a situation that she caused. I put my case to the support worker and she said that it was his perogative to includer her. I was appalled - how can they condone and acknowledge her but allowing her access to our services!!!
Me 37 years young!! S11 S7 T22 M14 D final 13.05.2010 Today is the first day of the rest of my life!!! First post: D Day has arrived