amen, v1. your kids--well, at least the older one for sure--will have great fun memories of the day with their dad! none of the rest really matters.

M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012