Originally Posted By: dburt
Good holiday weekend, played a lot of golf, went to the pool afterwards to see wife and kids. Spoke with friends. Wife urged me to enter a splash contast on the diving boards, so I did. Good time.

Started to massage on the wife in bed last night, and asked if she wanted to fool around, she said no thanks, I said you don't want to help me out any? She said she would and she grabbed her toy and after she was done "helped me out". Very weird, very adamant about not going "all the way".

This morning it was as if she felt guilty about what happened last night. Could be mind reading because she said nothing was wrong>

Piecing is hard.

Burt


Using her toy on her may be a start in getting back inside. If it were me, in my current situation I would be happy to use a toy on my current wife. I guess I would focus on the visual aspect of it, and her pleasure.

Of course after some sessions I'd ask if I could do it with my pants off.

What about a warm oil massage while she uses her toy on herself?