MWD's SSM book teaches lower-drive spouses the "right way" to reject their higher-drive mates for sex.
I'm pretty sure that wasn't it.
At some point, some empathy FROM YOUR WIFE needs to kick in here, Burt. Just saying "no" isn't enough; at least it shouldn't be.
Puppy
Agree on the empathy, from one of my other forums a member said "3 times a month is far too low for a couple that professes to be sexual". Of course I wholeheartedly agreed with it, and currently have been on a 6 month streak of no intercourse and no sexual natured activites. Before this we had gotten to one time a month, and outside the short sex sessions there was no physical intimacy or talk of it.
