I feel like i need to contact WAW

[TimeHeals]

I know your right. I have really been getting into prayer quite a bit to help cope with all of this. I know my wife is immature perhaps a narcissist as well as she has many of the symptoms.

I don't know. What you know is that she isn't behaving well, but then again... when somebody stores up a bunch of resentment and then--through a character flaw--uses it as an excuse to have an extramarital affair, then... they lose their way.

She has lost her way. That's what you know. Nothing you can do about that. It's not up to you, God or anybody else but her to face the difficulties and results of her choices.

I havent prayed for her so much as myself and DD1

Good.

Prayed for clarity, guidance, for someone to come along my path to help me and for the lord to take my pain away.

Try praying for strength to face this instead. OK, so you fell down. Now get back up. God (The Universe or whatever you want to call it) has given you a gift, and you don't see it yet. You have a chance to prove to yourself how strong you really are, how good of a MAN you really are.