Thanks for the reminder not to listen to the "little voice" and that my H is in the trouble he's in because of that little voice.
I am going home on Wed. (my daughter is missing H and I don't want the amount of time I took her away to reflect negatively on me in any future custody hearing). I think I've decided to go home for a week and then come back and visit my mom for another week. I can't commit to staying at my house idefinitely yet as it's not mentally healthy for me to be there, and luckily I don't have to because of summer vacation! (I'm a teacher).
Not sure how things will go between my H and me while I'm home.