My Husband Just Left Me

[BeingMe]

I've come to the conclusion that the only way we could get back together is if he has some sort of revelation, wanted to completely change and get help and I find that unlikely right now so I'm trying to get by as best I can.

I think you are right in this assessment, and you are the best person to know what is best for you.

I don't think you are stooping to your WH's level ... you are just trying to find a way to stay sane in an insane situation. Asking him if he's okay will achieve nothing ... he won't hear it, in fact, I think he will again ignore the email. Detachment is the best thing now, I feel. Have as little to do with him as possible. Yes, he is a human too, but he is one who has an alleged addiction, and one that is very painful for a wife to deal with. You don't deserve this. He needs help, but only he can decide when.