That's the kicker, she still denys that it's anything more then a friendship.
Well, SHE can continue to deny it, but YOU should continue to deliver "truth darts" when appropriate. You only get so many opportunities such as the cutting-off-of-the-cellphone, and they are nuggets to be mined carefully and forcefully, in my opinion.
"You can call it what you want, (Wife), but you and I both know you're lying right now, and I've decided that I will no longer allow our family's joint finances to be used on an inappropriate relationship with another man who's not your husband. Now most of us call those 'affairs,' but if you want to stick your head in the sand and cut and run from our marriage, don't expect me to help you fund the flight."
