Im sure many of you have been following my thread, and that my W is showing all signs of an EA or PA, but I can't find any proof, and Ive looked, hard.

And I see comments saying that I need to bust that up before I have a chance of saving my marriage...

What do I do? Every fiber of my being is telling me she is, and so want to confront her on this. Im guessing till I have proof, ...Im screwed. And Ive looked, email, IM, cell phone, GPS on our truck, but she's showing every classic sign of EA or PA

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Me 44
H 39
Met in 1998
Married in 2004
D 5, twins
Bomb - May 16th, 2010

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