My kids have lived with this reality for 2 1/2 years, Romeo. They're used to the drill. But when we are together as a family, going out together I can feel their joy as they become bubbly, happy and well, you just know. I am thankful that we are still a family that can do these things sometimes. I've always made sure I did not give any false hope, as much for me as for them! I don't spend time at STBX's or phone her to chat etc. I don't rely on her for emotional or any other kind of support and to her credit she does not expect that from me. I did joke not to long ago about getting re-married and D16 said "Daddy, I don't want you to re-marry". That hit a heartstring for me! I guess I'll have to wait for them to bring me that men's hair dye and say "Dad, it's time. You'd be a good catch for someone" but, at the rate I'm going, they might be bringing me Depends instead! LOL
