Margali, you say you would like sex about once a week. Nothing wrong with that. I find it encouraging to read stories from women who like sex -- it's a reassuring contrast to my own situation.
But I still feel somewhat alone, even in forums like this one, because I see very few, if any, women who want sex every day. Or maybe I've missed the thread.
Is there any hope that a guy like me, in my late fifties, if I were to look for another wife, is there even any hope of finding a woman who would like sex about once a day on average (skip a few days here and there, but double up on weekends is fine)? And I'm not just talking about a flash-in-the-pan heat of romance and honeymoon, but sustained wanting sex every day for years? This is the way I've been for 45 years since my early teens. I've met a few women who tell me that this is the way they are too, but I haven't had the pleasure of sharing that experience with them. The woman I chose to marry certainly didn't have that sustained high level of sex drive, which has been one of the most enduring disappointments in my life in an otherwise quite wonderful marriage. If only it hadn't been marred with this one rather major problem.
Margali, if helps you feel any better, if you're asking for just once a week, you're not asking for much, and your husband shouldn't have any excuses for pleasing you once a week, one way or the other, AS LONG AS HE HAS A PULSE. As one man to another, I would tell him that anyhing else is just lame. My god, I can't believe some of the excuses men come up with. I wouldn't have known without reading forums like this. What an eye-opener.
