Exactly wii. The kids love it when they see the parents together. It breaks my heart when DD says to me 'Daddy you know why it would be cool if mommy lived with us...' She wants us to live together as a family and she does what's in her power by saying cute things like that or whatever else she can do including tantrums when one of us has to take her to our places.
It sucks. And I'm all for making the WAS see the consequences but sh!t it's the kids that are paying the price not them. But again, what can you do? you just do what you can to be the best parent you can be for the kids and know that the kids will be OK. They adapt, they learn...doesn't make it 100% fine but it's what've got to work with.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again