Originally Posted By: newmama
Sorry, showing up after the birth doesn't erase the fact that you were a selfish jerk during the pregnancy!


Exactly. And yes, I'm glad my friends were icy. He has GOT to understand that he didn't just affect me and baby. He affected a huge group of people. It's not just his drama and his "personal revolution." His actions have hurt people, have changed his reputation, have ruined others' trust in him. Even if I forgive him, and I can, many other people WON'T.

He was so excited to see my one friend yesterday. "Oh, I haven't seen her in a long time!" he said. I was like, "DUH!!!!!!" So I guess this was a little WH-ey of him. Geez, so oblivious!

It's been good having him around, though. He's cooking for us A LOT and we're watching movies and 'hanging out.' With his mom and my mom there of course, and other family too.

Oh, and yesterday after the friends were icy and my mom made some snide remarks, he got really insecure about the baby. He changed her diaper


me, 30
WH, 29
D born June 2010
M: July 2001
Bomb/S: 1/14/10
Done with it all.