This weekend I told my parents about what was going on and a good friend of mine. It felt good to finally get it out.
WH overdrew his account and took a few dollars from our billing account and put in his personal account so he did not get an overdraft fee. He has also not replenished the $125 that he took awhile ago from the billing account. Do you think I can say something to him?
"WH,
I would appreciate it if you would not withdraw money from the joint billing account. You recently withdrew $125.00 from the account; what did you need this money for? Can you pleaes replenish the money you took? Please also replenish the $5.00 that you took from the account. Thanks."
How does that sound?
Also, I'm pretty irritated because he does not seem to be telling people we are seperated. I'm not going around shouting it out to people but now I'm at the point that if I am out somewhere and someone asks "How is WH?" I will simple say "We are seperated". I have also started to tell family that we are seperated if WH comes up in convo. I know for sure this weekend that a friend of mine (not super close) went to WH place of employment and he did not say anything to her because she wrote on my facebook wall that we should do a "double date" next time. WTF?! I'm sure she asked him how I was doing. UGH! I just don't understand him.
WH still has also not moved any of his stuff out of house (just his clothes); still not moved his cell account or anything for that matter. It is just confusing to me.
I can barely stand to think about him or be in the same room with him.
