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IDU,

I am glad you had a good Father's Day with the kids.

That is good you did invite her. I am now seeing that my W wants to go since I do not include her in anything. Her reasons are to look good for the D. Nothing else in my case. Maybe try to do a 180 and don't ask your W to go next time and see what she does.

Be patient and glad that she is respecting your boundaries. A positive attitude is good for you too, and she does seem to be trying. A good sign. It takes time.