Took DD's back home and worked a great 180 with WW...cheerful, strong, outgoing, and confident! Didn't engage WW in to much conversation...mostly talked/joked with DD's at dinner. DD's gave me the lovely Fathers Day gifts they made in school and WW gave me her present...no card...just a present. WW did manage to wish me Happy Fathers Day verbally. Took DD's to park after dinner...then came home gave them hugs and kisses and said thank you to WW for my gift then left.
Had a great IC session Friday...IC told me to start doing things for myself to define who I am rather than letting our M and WW define who I am. IC also agreed that WW has a lot of growing up to do especially after I told IC about WW taking back my birthday present.
Last month on two separate occasions, I decided to start wearing an earring again. After WW made the following two comments, "do you know how ridiculous you look" and in front of DD's "you like embarrassing your daughters?" I took the earring out...weak...weak...weak! I've since started to wear my earring again much to WW's chagrin(she made a comment at dinner yesterday which I ignored)and I will decide when to take it out if ever!
M-43 FWW-42 T 20 M 16 DD10 DD8 EA: 1/10 Informal separation: 6/11/2010 Headed for D: 7/6/2010 Piecing? 9/10/10
