I know how you feel. My W is the same. So wrapped up in her own, selfish little life. No Father's Day card from my daughter, either. BlkBerry Messenger all day. It appears she dumped her Yahoo acount and everything is Berry now. She also dropped her FB acct (I could see it, IMO). And I want to yell the same things. WAKE UP! READ A BOOK! OPEN YOUR EYES! THINK FOR ONE MINUTE! I don't know what to tell you or do other than to tryto GAL and convince yourself that you can; will and MUST be happy without her. It will only be when she sees and, more importantly, FEELS that YOU are gone from her that she may start to figure it out. I'm deep in the mud with my W (suspected A) so I am just trying to get control of me 'cause it's all I can control or change. And it only takes one person to change what they're doing and "the dance HAS to change"
