Thanks folks! We actually had a really nice family time last night. I drove STBX back to her place and we were all laughing and talking about family memories e.g.'s the kids first day of school, their favourite stuffed animals etc. When we pulled into the driveway STBX got out and said to D16 "give me your head" and D16 says "No, that scares me!" STBX reached in a took hold of her head and began covering her with kisses. They were both laughing and giggling. It was a nice end to the evening. I always see that when we're out together as a family the kids are so happy and alive. We all feel bonded and like a family. It's sad that this is only once in a while but what is is! It would not be good to make it too frequent. Also, regarding the camp D13 cn't go to, I think it's good for STBX to see that there are consequences to separation. Life is not just as it was on all levels. Splitting up a family causes some hardship. The fact that I won't go away for the week with them in August is another lesson for her. WE always went away to the cottage as a family and now she will have to experience that without the whole family. That's what ditching your husband gets you. Anyway, it's work time, gotta go!
