So this thing that you are feeling, this level of detatchment, is exactly where you should be.
I know it feels wierd, scary, and a bit uncomfortable right now.
That feeling won't last as you recognize this for what it really is, which is a part of the process.
This DOES NOT mean that you are done, that you don't love your H, that you don't want your M.
It give you the opportunity to really look at things, from a different perspective and make decisions that are not as based on emotions, fear, what if's.
It is really you becoming an independent person once again. Which is really how we should remain, even when we are in relationships.
Something that happens when we get married, united, is we end up becoming two people, with one agenda. Instead of two people with individual agendas and one common goal.
So don't be afraid of this.
Keep doing what you have been doing.
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
