Had a very long roller coaster ride this weekend after talking to WH on Friday. Having to consider the reality of the situation. My children believe, as I secretly do in my heart, that when OW dumps him, he will wake up and come back wanting me to make it better, just like I always have. I don't want that. I can't be what he "settles for". No matter how messed up he is in his head, I can't fill that void in him anymore. I've done some very painful soul searching this weekend, and an moving towards some conclusions.