Your W can lay traps & tests for you all she likes; YOU control the way that you act/react to it. Your W can't make you do anything. You need to internalize that truth immediately. Start thinking more and reacting less. You may just find yourself feeling a little bit better about the whole thing.
Wisdom
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-