BD, overly emotional is what you are going to be right now and for about 40 days post birth, as your hormones run amock.

Maybe think about this from another angle: think about YOU. what do you need and want?
If you think WH is 'asking' too much of you, take a day off from him. You don't need to make excuses or be rude about it.
What helps you, helps your baby.

You & your baby are one. You are Queen.

Your WH is an outsider. His needs right now and post birth are irrelevant. Harsh, but true.

HUGS

Me 36; H 40
baby born in May
M:13, T:15
Bomb (OW): Dec 09
began DBing: Feb
WH overseas with OW
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