Ms. H, I am so sorry you still have to deal w/ that kind of behavior from your ex. Not sure why they still have to act that way, even after they have gotten what they wanted.
You did a WONDERFUL job by handling the situation the way that you did. I think you should exchange the kids at the police department (or somewhere public), whether you get the order of protection or not. But, I would definitely try to get one. At this point, your safety and the safety of those two little boys are what is most important.
As for the OW coming to your house, I'm so glad the police told her what they did. It is in my court papers that my ex's wife (former ow) is not allowed at my house or to be a part of the exchanging of the kids.
Good luck w/ the child support case. Let us know how that turns out for you.
