Libby - I have a feeling that when the disapproval comes from the children they take it differently. When they left us they really didn't consider how it will affect their relationship with their children, they were busy justifying and thinking that the kids will be fine, everything is going to be fine. As a matter of fact I have heard my H say that D will be better off if he leaves then if he stayed, because he would be unhappy without OW.
So when your D actually told him what she thinks, that probably shook him quite a bit and maybe disturbed the fantasy world that he has created.
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
