Not to be an a$$hole here, but seriously, you need to pull your head out of the clouds and focus. On you and your D. Not on this stupid fb $hit.

You seem to be taking on the role of 'victim' here. In this thread, and your new thread, you talk about how your W does things to 'make' you feel/react a certain way. Your W can lay traps & tests for you all she likes; YOU control the way that you act/react to it. Your W can't make you do anything. You need to internalize that truth immediately.

Start thinking more and reacting less. You may just find yourself feeling a little bit better about the whole thing.


M & H: 40
M: 5.5 T: 7.5
OW: 7/09 Bomb: 9/09
Sep: 3/10 H files 7/10

still m'd, unsure how to procede

Soapie:
1: http://tinyurl.com/vulcanized1
2: http://tinyurl.com/vulcanized2
3: http://tiny.com/vulcanized3