Not to be an a$$hole here, but seriously, you need to pull your head out of the clouds and focus. On you and your D. Not on this stupid fb $hit.
You seem to be taking on the role of 'victim' here. In this thread, and your new thread, you talk about how your W does things to 'make' you feel/react a certain way. Your W can lay traps & tests for you all she likes; YOU control the way that you act/react to it. Your W can't make you do anything. You need to internalize that truth immediately.
Start thinking more and reacting less. You may just find yourself feeling a little bit better about the whole thing.
M & H: 40 M: 5.5 T: 7.5 OW: 7/09 Bomb: 9/09 Sep: 3/10 H files 7/10