STBX says "after all the work I did on this lawn, now it's a mess" and I replied sarcastically "that darn hamster had to go and die and ruin all your work" D16 says "Mommy, is this really an appropriate time, could you maybe say this stuff later" and STBX says "I think it's an appropriate time"
Good god.
I agree with the others - you've got some great kids. And it sounds like they know you're a great dad. Happy Father's Day Wii!