Hey G, just checking in. Funny you mentioned about the red flags. I met this one girl a few months ago who is 31 never married, now 31 is not old but I'd already had a kid by then. Anyway, exchanged a few IMs and email conversations and a few more red flags popped up. The last straw was when she snapped during an IM conversation because I told her to go have dinner (it was 10pm and she was complaining she was starving) in a caring way and she thought I was commanding her! jeezus! I just sat there with my jaw dropped for a few secs. I told her I really had to go and never talked to her since. It kinda made me miss my STBXW because I kept thinking how she knew me so well and I [thought] knew her so well and now I'll have to start over fumbling and bumbling my way through this. Sometimes I ask myself if I should really even bother anymore? I'm sure with age my 'needs' will die down (hopefully! and I never thought I'd say that lol) and if I really needed a companion to go places with me maybe I'll get a dog instead
OK some silly talking there but sometimes I type what I'm thinking.
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Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again