My SIL and I were close at one time. In 2001 when my H had his first A, I called her for support and she came and tried to get to the bottom of things and it kinda affected hers and H's relationship. She had always been there for him, bought things for him, slipped him money etc. and she has always been there for my SS and still is. She is one of those that will call when she is 5mins from your house to say "surprise, I am here!" etc. and that would drive H crazy! So, they kinda grew apart a little and I followed H's lead in that! Dumb
SIL feels sorry for our kids so yes, she is being there for them. At one time, we had said if something happened to both of us, we would want her to be the kids guardian. Now, we would have SS and DIL.
So, no matter what happens with H and I, I know I can count on her to be there for the kids if they need her!
Yeah, OW waiting in the hot car for 20mins or so is kinda funny!
Now, today when H dropped the kids off, he was back to his normal in a hurry self! I had to go clean the shop where I work so tried to time it so I'd be gone when he brought the kids home and wouldn't you know it, I got home about 5 mins ahead of them! Dangit! He didn't finish looking at the A/C and I didn't remind him...
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing
