Better Days

[ImprovedRomeo]

Hey G, you're getting good advice here and I have to agree with the last few posts. However, I just think it's odd that she's feeling this way and saying those things to you so soon. I mean, has it even been two months since D? What did she expect when she pushed for the D? Did she think that she'll live in a separate house, become a part-time mom and still have all the support and love from you? WTF? I guess I'm just asking a generic question about the WAS here...why the D if they're miserable in their new life which is what the wanted to badly? or is it simply because they no longer have the OM/OW anymore that was lighting up their fantasy world and they had to come back to reality and see the destruction of their actions. If so, then the scary question is how long before the next OM/OW comes along and they do the same thing? I suspect it's what's happening in my case.

Anyway, I think your journaling helps me more than you think, I see a lot of similar thoughts and patterns in you and it makes me ponder things I didn't think of before. Hope you had a good day G.