How are you doing? Sounds like we are struggling with some same issues. Stay strong. It's hard feeling unappreciated and disrespected. I've lived that way for almost 17 months, today being my 12th anniversary, and not an ounce of kindness from my spouse.
On not an ounce of kindness, many of us know how it feels. I wish I didn't know. Do things that you like to do.
