He showed up over an hour late with the kids. I was letting it slide as it was Father's day.
I was outside walking the dog when he pulled into the driveway.
I saw that bimbo was in the passenger seat.
I decided to remain calm and did not approach the car.
Ex got out and went to the trunk to retrieve the boys bags.
The boys were still in the car.
Very calmly I asked ex if he would show me a little respect and not bring her to my house again.
Right away he threw the bookbags forcefully in my direction but they did not hit me. He then charged toward me and got right in my face and pointed his finger in my face and stood really close.
He yelled, "Which one of you two is trying to send me to jail?"
By "two" I guess he meant my lawyer or me. Ex may get sent to jail if he does not pay me the 15k he owes me. I am still waiting to here from family court if his downward modification will be accepted. So far the judge isn't bying his crap.
I backed up and then he got in my face again and murmered something about father's day.
I backed up again and went right to the door and said, "that's it, I am calling the police."
I grabbed the dog and ran inside immediately locking the door behind me and I then heard a loud bang against the door.
I went and called the police and ex left with the kids.
While I was waiting for the police to come one of my gfs TM me to see if I was ok. She said she saw ex at the shopping center down the road with two police cars.
He called the police on me and stated that we got into an argument, he threw the bookbags on the ground and then I told him to get off the property, so he left.
of course that is not what happened.
The police came and they called up their boss to see if they could arrest him.
Another police officer escorted ex back to the house so he could drop the kids off.
Unfortunately the police said they really did not have enough on him to make anything stick but they told me to go to family court and seek an order of protection.
They also told ow not to come to my house again or she would be charged with trespassing. She argued with them but they told her I have every right to say she is not allowed on my property. She finally agreed to it.
It pissed me off as I do not go to their house, I leave them alone, just show me a little respect and don't allow her to come here.
Ex is just getting nasty as he knows he has a good chance of losing in court.
