Hey thanks for the support; and Happy father's day too!! I hope things get better for you as well!! I know time is a big thing and I'm trying to give her space. It's just tough because I see my son as often as I can and this week was his 5th grade graduation. We all went out for dinner after words the 3 of us like old times lot of weird, but good feelings too.
I probably shouldn't have either, but told her she was welcomed to come to the movies with S and me today if she wanted and W said she would get back to me. Trying to be positive, maybe I'm being to0 nice.
I have been working on myself during these times as well. I have gone out with friends I haven’t done in a long time (as I wanted to have family time instead). I joined a gym , even been working on forgiveness for myself as well as her and that been tough but gets a little better each day. I even have tried to be a better father and even offered to help W with herself as she is more depressed than me.
W has said she has even noticed changes in me!!
I know I'm suppose to back away and it's hard some days are better others aren’t. This whole thing is just a mess and I know she needs to figure things out for herself as well. I also have another blog in the newcomers section as well. Talk to ya later Hope