You and I seem to be in sort of similar situations now. Did your H say that he wanted to be friends from the beginning? Mine did. . . It bothers me a bit that he's kind of getting what he wanted!
G, he did say early on he wanted to be friends... I said NO! but then I fall in the trap of allowing him to be there for 'baby things" and that grows into "friends". I am too tired of trying to keep up with his craziness! He obviously is very very very very confused and doesnt know what he wants! I would rather him cut me off completely and say i will never love you again and i am so confident in that, than to do what he is doing!
I said to H I dont like being friends, he said dont worry thats not whats happening... but....
