my husband showed up yesterday at my doorstep with an open beer in his hand and two speeding tickets that got mailed to him from me that i have to pay. after not speaking to me or calling since last tuesday. it was like he wanted to take me out or something. i was disgusted, you guys. i told him i wasn't going to be jumping through hoops to save our marriage anymore. i told him i wasn't getting a job to pay for his weekend vacational house and to have fun at his pagan drum party. what a loser. Then we started fighting and i asked him to leave. I'm actually really getting over him! He even looked stupid to me. Not good looking liek he used to. Isn;t that a sign your getting over someone? they start to actually look different to you? he looked like shaggy form scooby doo or something!!
Glad you stood up for yourself! Be careful with the fighting, though. If he's been physical before, I'd be nervous he'd do it again. Make sure you two aren't having heated discussions isolated inside the house.
Me 32, H 34, DD 3 M 6, T 8 Bomb 03/10 OW Bomb 6/5/10 Separate & NC 6/28/10 My 2nd EA Thread
