I talked to my WH last night about this divorce. He expressed uncertainty.
Don't you just want to slap them and say are you stupid!!! grow up and own up to your feelings!!! I couldnt believe your WH said that... Well... its obvious he truly doesnt know what he wants... keep living life for you and let him come out of his own mess... you will gain stregnth and power and happiness and then IF you want, you will allow him in your life.
How could one file for D with uncertainty!!! I could never! Why do our WH's think D is an easy solution... or the next step... i swear they do not understand the reality of it!
sometimes I get the urge to bring the D papers to family court myself and dont care if my H lives to regret it for the rest of his life. Its not my problem!
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BD what are you getting your H for Father's Day?
a box of cigars that read "It's a Boy" to hand out at the hospital. he stopped over in the morning... hung out for a while and i made him coffee and we watched a world cup game together. I was extra emotional today. I cried. i know i shouldnt have but you what, Im 9 months pregnant, hormonal, cranky, and a hot mess... and i basically said that i dont see him ever loving me again and that im tired of everything... our whole situation.
Of course now he wants to caress me and say dont cry, or baby first... blah blah blah.
i just think this is so wrong... this picture is so wrong!!!
